In my travels around blogland, as well as in my private conversations, I'm seeing more and more of what can only be termed as
Blogger Burnout.
Shoot, sometimes all I have to do is look in the mirror to get a good look at what a tired blogger looks like!
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Ever feel like this?
Like your cup's only half full?
To those who have opened up about their struggles to balance it all, to fit in blogging and family and work and everything else, I admire you more than I can say! You have truly spoken my heart and expressed much of what I myself have felt of late.
But what are the causes?
Is it an external or an internal pressure we place on ourselves to be....
Fabulous?
Funny?
Welcoming?
Polite?
Prolific?
Timely?
Buzz-worthy?
And in so doing, what do we sacrifice...
Family time?
Work obligations?
Prayer time?
Household chores?
Peace of mind?
I speak only for myself when I say that any and all pressure I feel related to blogging is entirely self-imposed. I got myself on this treadmill, and I'm the one that occasionally turns it waaaay up to full throttle! I'm the one that worries that perhaps others will view my occasional inability to make it over to their blogs to say "hey" as rudness, when what it really is is exhaustion, pure and simple.
Let me go on record right now as saying that blogging has never, ever felt like a chore or an obligation to me.
Far from it, it has been an unexpected joy, a source of delight and wonder and has revealed to me dear friends and kindred spirits the likes of which I never knew exisited!
But like so many others have expressed, I too have seen the effects that my blogging has had on my home life and my relationships in the "real" world.
Dishes and clothes have gone unwashed.
Checkbooks have gone unbalanced.
Prayers have gone un-prayed.
Husbands (just one!) have been neglected.
Can I blame any of this on blogging?
I think not.
The fault lies squarely with the woman talking to you right now, and there lies the solution as well.
This post doesn't have any answers or quick fixes, just a little honesty in the hopes that the more of us that speak up about this, the more forgiving we might feel towards ourselves.
You know, maybe give ourselves permission to miss a few days of blogging, safe in the knowledge that the world will keep on turning and no one will perish if I don't post pics of my latest crap from this weeks estate sale.
I've included a poll, so even if you don't post a comment, I hope you'll weigh in on whether you've been experiencing blogger burnout, too.
Thanks for "listening", and don't forget to do something nice for yourself today. :-)
XO,
Anne