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Thursday, September 15, 2011

..."and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest..."




the last picture.

My precious mama passed away three days later,
September 13, 2011.

I was asleep at her bedside, 
and although she had been in a great deal of pain all that final day,
the end came quickly and quietly.
No more pain, no more suffering, no more tears.

Goodnight, Mama.
I love you to the moon and back,
and I will see you again on the other side.

if you have ever lost someone, please play this song.
for me, it says it like no other.






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Michelle Hughes said...

So sorry for your loss. There is never enough time with the ones we truly love. Prayers of comfort for you.
xo

Karen said...

Oh Anne I am so deeply sorry. I know what you are going through. She was so fortunate to have such a loving daughter. God bless your mom. God bless you. He hears all our prayers and comforts all our sorrows. My sincere sympathy to you and your family.

Karen

Anonymous said...

For you Anne,
Go to God
by Grace E. Easley

When a friend is feeling sorrow
That you wish that you could share,
And no words of any language
Can remove the grief they bear,
When the unexpected shadows
Fall across the path they trod,
There is no human remedy,
When a brave heart's torn asunder,
And it's courage seems too small
There is no solace found in pain
That overtakes us all.
When hot tears keep on falling
'Til they drench the very sod,
To find someone to dry them,
There's a reason for each heartache,
Though we cannot see it now,
And we grow with every sorrow,
That Heaven will allow.
Though we always seek the sunlight,
Earth is still "a vale of tears"
And only God can help us bear
The burden of the years.
We've simply got to trust Him,
And we can't afford to doubt,
Because He has created life,
He knows what it's about.
Because His dear feet also walked
These narrow paths we trod,
To heal our broken spirits.

Jane said...

Anne, I was so sorry to read about your mother's passing. I know how difficult this time is. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Jane

Suzanne said...

It is never easy to lose a parent at any age. My sister and I used to visit our parents while we were still the children and all to soon that changed. My mom always wore red lipstick on her very full lips. While she was in the hospital I asked her if she wanted to put her lipstick on, that it might make her feel better. She said yes so I put the lipstick on her and my sister gave her a tissue so she could blot her lips. She asked us how she looked and we both said at the same time "beautiful". She fell asleep never to wake again. My sister and I call this a "lipstick" moment and my wish for you is to remember the "lipstick" moments you had with your mom.

Lara said...

I'm so sorry for your loss dear Anne. May the Lord comfort & guide you in this time. Hugs ♥
Lara

Anji Johnston said...

My heart is breaking with you Anne. May you find peace in knowing that your mum is with angels now, watching over you and embracing you with love. Love and prayers XxX

Beatnheart said...

blessings and peace to you and your family during this sad time.

The Feathered Nest said...

Oh dear angel...what a precious photo of you both!!! I'm so, so very glad you have it Anne...I'm so sorry for your loss sweet friend. What comforts me now is knowing your precious mom now has a new body in Christ and is perfect, no tears, no pain....I'm sending you big, big hugs and so much love Anne, Dawn

Blue Creek Home said...

Anne - I can't express how very sorry I am. It is hard to say goodbye to our mothers. Three of my sisters and I were at my mom's bedside as she drew her last breath. We had been there singing her favorite gospel songs and praying all day. We held her until God drew her into his arms and welcomed her home. Your mom knew you were close. Let God's amazing grace and sweet memories of a Godly mother get you through the sadness to follow. You are in my prayers, friend.
Rhonda

helle said...

I´m so sorry, my heart bleeds for you. Lost my mother 3 months ago, I know what you are going through.
Love Helle

Privet and Holly said...

I know I sent
you an e-mail,
but wanted to
let you know that
I haven't stopped
thinking or praying
for you. Your faith
will see you through,
but I'm sure it must
be strange that the
sun can still come
up and people can
still be hurrying
about their lives
when yours has been
changed forever. Be
kind to yourself as
you make this journey
to your new normal.
Love you, sweet Anne.
xx Suzanne

My Sparrows Nest said...

I'm so happy for you that you got to spend precious moment with your dear mother before she went home to Jesus. What a gift that photo is! I'm so sorry for your sadness and loss. HUGS.

Reenie said...

I am so sorry.....cherish your memories. xo

Unknown said...

Oh my sweet Anne...words just can't express how my heart hurts for you. I hate that we have this is common- losing our moms to ovarian cancer. It's just not right.
But over the next days, weeks, months... I hope you experience peace and love in the Lord, as you are flooded by the outreach of prayers from family and friends. I dedicated my post to all those going through this today. Love you much

Paula said...

Came over from Joyce's blog "I love Pretty Little Things"-
just wanted to say I'm so sorry... this sent a flood of memeories back from when I lost my precious mother in 2005.
Sending many hugs and prayers your way.
And yes, that is a wonderful song....

Grandma Yellow Hair said...

Honey I am so sorry to hear this about your mom but I am so glad you were there with her.
My heart is aching for you and sending you my love and prayers
Maggie

Anonymous said...

Dear Anne, I am so sorry for your loss. Your beautiful words and precious picture brought back memories of my last moments with my mom. Heartbreaking, but so very happy I was granted the honor of being with her. You will be in my prayers for the journey ahead.

annette said...

I'm so sorry for the loss of your Mom. My heart goes out to you.

Theresa said...

Oh my friend, I sure wish I was there to give you a HUG! I have been there, I have lost both of my Parents and know that pain HURTS so bad! I will continue to pray for you my friend! I know that your Mama is in the presence of Jesus and we'll all meet her there one day! Love you bunches, yell if you need me!!!!!

mollydianeh said...

I was so sorry to read about the passing of your precious Mom. A blessing she passed quietly in her sleep with her sweet daughter at her bedside.
Your beautiful Mamma, was not alone when she came into this world and she was certainly not alone when she passed into the next. What a joyful reunion she must have had, and to know you WILL see her "by 'n by"
sending you hugs and love,
Mollydiane

Little Leslie said...

I hope your memories of happy times will get you through this tough time.
Love,
Leslie

Amy Kinser said...

My heart hurts for you, sweet Anne. I am truly truly sorry.

Lee Weber said...

So sorry for your loss, Anne. I love the picture, you mom has such a sweet face. Wishing you peace and comfort. HUGS

time worn interiors said...

Oh sweet Anne, I'm so sorry for your loss! I will keep you in my prayers!
tot

Lynda said...

If we had a clue...of the rewards the LORD has for us....we would not shed a tear...Losing a parent is still difficult. My dad went home to be with the LORD Sept.9,2011. Love and prayers from Florida! Lyndaoflakeland.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time..
Janet

Lili said...

My dear Anne, my heart is breaking for you right now. The song you linked has one of the most comforting lines I have ever heard when it talks about seeing our loved ones again "through the doors beyond the grave". In your sorrow you even gave back to us. I pray for comfort for you and that you will still feel your sweet Mama's spirit as near as a whisper. Sending love to you dear Anne. ~Lili

Lynn said...

I'm so sorry for your loss, Anne. I lost my husband six years ago and that was devastating, but I know losing my sweet mom will be equally as hard. I dread that day. You are in my prayers tonight. Heaven is her home now and what a glorious reunion you'll share one day.
:) Lynn
www.cottageandcreek.com

Joanna Jenkins said...

Big sigh. There are no words other than to say you and your mom are in my prayers.

xoxox

Deborah said...

Anne,
xoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxox
Warmest of hugs to you xo

With love,
Deborah

Lisa said...

Anne,
No words necessary, I can feel your pain. Love you.
Lisa

Wildflowerhouse said...

Dear Anne I feel your pain. But know she will always be with you. You have my loving thoughts. Take care, take time for you.

Sharon

Elderberry Dreams said...

I am so sorry and my prayers are with you. Take care....

Stan and Jody Gabara said...

Your mother is with the angels. I just lost my dad August 23 and my mother 3 years ago. My prayers are with you.


Love, Jody
rootedinthyme.blogspot.com
thymeforhome.blogspot.com

Sherry @ No Minimalist Here said...

Anne, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs,
Sherry

Katie @ Wildwood Creek said...

I am so sorry for the loss of your mom. I pray that God brings you peace and comfort.

Monica said...

Mi dispiace tantissimo il tuo dolore deve essere così grande e forte da non poter essre spiegato. Spero che tu possa presto trovare un pò di serenità e il pensiero della tua mamma tornare ad essere un pensiero di gioia.
Un abbraccio!

Arabella said...

I love you, Anne.

Prayers, love & light to you during this time.

Hugs,
Marie

Formerly known as Frau said...

Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Juniper Hill Antiques said...

So sorry to hear of your loss. Time will bring some healing along with sweet memories. One day you will find yourself smiling and realize that you had a fleeting sweet memory that you will carry with you in your heart. I lost my mom at an early age 20 years ago but her voice, her scent and memory are constantly with me. May you feel comfort in God's promises. Take care....

saltbox
treasures
said...

Dear Anne, So sorry for your loss. Praying for you. What a beautiful pic of you and your mom, and what a sweet daughter you have been to her.
~ Julie

Nita Jo said...

There are no words that can really convey what I want to say. I'm so sorry your mom had to move on so soon. Praying that your heart is feeling all the love that is being sent your way.

Beverly said...

Sending you my love, sweet Anne. I will continue to hold you close in my heart and prayers.

As you look to God for guidance, He looks on you with love.♥

*Linda Pinda* said...

So very sorry, Anne. Your picture and post are beautiful. I can relate all too well. My business name, "Linda Pinda" is my ode to my sweet mama who called me that all my life. She too had cancer, and died at the age of 61, when I was pregnant for my Rebekah.

Faith was my constant consolation and comfort. There are still days, six years later, when I have to fight to keep it all beneath the surface. I miss her so, and cannot believe the world has gone on spinning without her.

But there have been so many little signs and wonders that she is still with me. And I know that I would never steal her away from the joy of heaven to have her for even one more moment. But still...

I'm keeping you in my heart and prayers. Thank you for sharing your journey, and helping us all to experience that we are "a part of this one body".

Love,
Linda "Pinda"

Jen Kershner said...

That last picture is a precious treasure for you. Your Mom was a beautiful lady and obviously much loved. You are so blessed because you got to say goodbye and she was so blessed to have you by her side.

Dear Lillie said...

Oh Anne! My heart is breaking for you! I am so so so sorry! I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through and don't know what to write that doesn't sound trite but please know I am praying for you and for comfort to make it through this time!

The Rustic Victorian said...

I am so sorry Anne, I know how your heart is breaking. God is holding your hand very tightly, Mom too. Consider yourself hugged.
Love
Marcie

Jackie said...

I'm sending good thoughts your way, may you find comfort in knowing she's no longer in pain. Hugs to you dear lady and may your mama rest in peace.
...Jackie

from me to thee......... said...

Oh my dear Anne, I am so sorry for your loss...I am glad you were by her side. I have walked in your shoes....and it is hard, be strong....be glad for the time you spent with her, the memories, and that special lady was your mom. The picture you posted is just perfect, you see the love you have for each other....and that is the best.....if I could I would give you a hug, but, your in my thoughts...........Linda

Julie Ann said...

So sorry, Anne!! :( I know it is so, so hard... *Hugs*

Sue said...

Praying for God's strength for you and yours during this difficult time and thanking God for His care to you and your mama. How blessed she is to be in heaven with loved ones and what a day of rejoicing it will be when you are reunited with her once again!

Laura said...

Dear Anne-
I have been away from my computer for a week baby-sitting grandsons.

I didn't know about your mother, and I am so sorry for your loss.

You did such a good job,

Laura

White Ironstone Cottage said...

She will always be with you in your heart
sending Love and prayers
Pam

Unknown said...

Oh' dear Anne, you were on my mind and I was just checking in. I'm so sorry to see this and know I haven't been here for you. My heart aches for you. Your picture of you with your mother is so moving. God has given her a home beyond all of this pain. I pray the angels are surrounding you with comfort and strength.

All my love, Tracy

sandy said...

DOES JESUS CARE? copyright 1901

1. Does Jesus care when my heart is pained too deep-ly for mirth or song; As the burdens press, And the cares distress, and the way grows wear-y and long?
2. Does Jesus care when my way is dark with a name-less dread and fear? As the day-light fades in-to deep night shades, does He care enough to be near?
3. Does Jesus care when I've said "good-by" to the dear-est on earth to me,and my sad heart aches till it nearly breaks, is it aught to Him? Does He seee?
OH YES, HE CARES, I KNOW HE CARES, HIS HEART IS TOUCHED WITH MY GRIEF; WHEN THE DAYS ARE WEARY, THE LONG NIGHT DREARY, I KNOW MY SAVIOR CARES...HE CARES

grace be to you, and peace, from God our Father, and from the Lord Jesus Christ. Eph1:2

SandyL

vintagegirl said...

I am SO very sad to hear your sweet mother has passed. You can tell that you had a close bond and I hope those special memories will comfort you in these difficult days. My heart aches for you and your family and I continue to keep you in my prayers. Wishing you peace and strength and God's encompassing love!

p.s. beautiful song which I found very comforting :)

Sharon

vintagegirl said...

May I also recommend a great little book "Healing After Loss" by Martha Whitmore Hickman with daily meditations. I found this book extremely comforting after the loss of my niece 4 years ago:)

Sharon

Thespoena McLaughlin said...

It is heartbreaking to lose a parent, and ever after there are intense moments of them not being there. But we can take comfort in knowing that they are in the happiest place of all, reuniting with loved ones they had lost, surrounded by joy and love. Big hugs going out to you and your family. So sorry for your loss.

Linda @ Itsy Bits And Pieces said...

Oh Anne...my heart hurts for you...I am sending prayers for comfort and peace...a BIG XO

Tammy@T's Daily Treasures said...

Dear Anne, I can see the pain in your eyes, but your mama is beaming with love and light. Sending hugs and blessings, and prayers for peace and comfort. Best wishes, Tammy

Jill said...

May her soul rest in peace with Jesus and may you feel His arms around you right now. Sending prayers for you Anne. He is real. She lives on even if you can't feel her. May your suffering be united with Christ on the cross.

Deb said...

You will think of your mother every day, Anne. It will keep you strong. Hugs, Deb

Julie@beingRUBY said...

Hi Anne
So sorry to hear of your loss.. My own mum died 36 years ago on the same date!! I'll be thinking of you.. xx Julie

Unknown said...

Anne, although I haven't written, I've been following your posts about your dear mother. Both my mom & dad have passed on - all of their siblings, too (they came from large families, both - eight or nine children in each family). Then last year, I had more losses - although all aged, it doesn't ease the pain much, does it?

I played your song. It's beautiful - and I cried.

Words are so lacking at times like this. I just wanted you to know that someone who normally lurks in the background has been moved by how you shared, ever so tenderly, these painful, yet precious moments.

You were both blessed to have each other, and yes, you will see each other on the other side.

God bless you & I wish you a million gentle hugs...

Mrs. Cherry Heart said...

Dearest Anne,
I am so sorry for your loss! I pray that find peace and strength!

My mum has been in the hospital since July 10th... She is slowly falling into depression now! I pray for strength for her and our family as this is so difficult to sit by her bedside and not be able to help her!

God Bless you,
Dolly

Tina said...

Dearest Anne - so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of prayers, thoughs and hugs your way.

xo Tina

the old white house said...

Dear Anne, I started to write this when I first saw your post but was at a loss for words. I still am, but know that you and your family are in my prayers and that having lost my mom I too know that what I have is the knowing that I will see her again one day. May your mom feel the embrace of our Lord and the comfort of His arms. Peace and much love, t. xoxoxo

Tami said...

Awwww, sweet Anne, I was just catching up on some blogging, sorry to hear about your mom. Praying that you find comfort in knowing that you will see her again one day. God is good all the time.

Hugs and Love,
Tami

Bonnie@Creative Decorating said...

I understand so well and feel your heart breaking. My mama passed on June 25th while I was sitting with her for 48 hours knowing her time was coming. It is a time of tears and smiles. My prayers are with you and your family. My life still hasn't moved on like is was before and not sure it ever will. Take care.

Lou Cinda @ Tattered Hydrangeas said...

Oh Anne, I am so sorry....I know this pain all to well....

You were such a wonderful daughter and I know she was so proud of you....you were both so blessed...

saying many prayers....

Lou Cinda

Into Vintage said...

Such a sweet photo of the two of you. Keeping you in my thoughts. There's no one like our mothers. xo

Chatty Crone said...

I'm a brand new follower. So I don't know what to say. I am so sad for you. I know the pain you are in. You mother looked like a real angel. No more suffering for her -but for you - yes. Hugs and prayers are being sent your way. again I am so sorry. sandie

Betsy@My Salvaged Treasures said...

Oh Ann, I'm so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. You are so blessed to have been there with her to comfort her in her last moments. Bless her and bless you too.

Marlene said...

I just found out today.My heart
ached .I am sorry for your loss.
marlene

Marlene said...

I just found out today.My heart
ached .I am sorry for your loss.
marlene

Marlene said...

I just found out today.My heart
ached .I am sorry for your loss.
marlene

Im Spiegel said...

I feel so sorry for your loss, Anne.

Curtains in My Tree said...

It hurts real bad and nothing helps really, but time

losing a mama is hurtful( 13 years ago)

i just lost my Dad ( sept 5th 2011)

glad for your road trip my sister and I are going to Savannah Georgia to heal in a fun way

Janice

Susan said...

Anne, I am soooo very sorry for not commenting sooner, I won't even go into why.
Please know that I am so very sorry for your loss, my heart is heavy and hurts for you.

My mere words feel so very useless at a time like this, but they are sincere.

Please, please send me your mailing info.

Love and hugs,
Susan

Dawn-Hydrangea Home said...

So sorry about your mom. Thinking of you!

nda said...

I am so sorry for your loss. The posts of your mom have been so endearing. And yes, God is good, all the time. Blessings, Nancy

Noemi said...

Lamento tu pena, al ver tu foto lloré como si te conociera, porque yo también perdí a mi madre a causa del cáncer y tuve la bendición de estar con ella hasta el ultimo dia, igual que tú. Fuerzas!,ella te mirará siempre desde el cielo.Perdón que escriba en español.

Sweet Cottage Dreams said...

Ann, I am just now reading your post. My heart feels heavy for you right now..and I know your pain. My mother joined our Heavenly family on August 3rd. May you find comfort in knowing that someday you will be with your mother again, like I will mine.

I did a mother's post today....

much love,
Becky

Kattywhompus Primitives said...

I'm so sorry for your loss Anne. Thank you for sharing the photo of you and your beautiful Mom. Your eyes (and hers) say everything...

Peace to you,
Rhonda

Susie (aka Three Boys Farm Mama) said...

So sorry for your loss, Anne. I lost my dad last year and I know how keen the pain can be. Be good to yourself and patient. The fog of loss is strong and long.

Many hugs and blessings to you...

Kim F said...

I am catching up on my reader and saw your posts about your mother's illness and passing. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace and may your heart feel peace as well. God bless!

Carmen said...

Oh sweet Anne, that photo made my heart skip a beat! As I shed tears and closed my eyes to pray for you both, I sent an embrace and prayers your way.

But you know what? I was also happy to witness what an amazing relationship you guys had - a picture is indeed worth a thousand words and, oh, the lovely story this one tells...

My condolences are super late but I just figured out how to comment on blogs. Blessings and happy thoughts for you lovely lady...

Pama Mitchell said...

Just ran across this sweet tribute to your mother. My dear mother died a week ago, so my grief is so fresh. Thank you for the lovely song. So sorry for your loss, which must still seem like it was yesterday.

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